Is it possible to love your beloved too much? Some hearty, sensible words on How to Love a Girl, from Bad Catholic:
"There is a tendency amongst Christians to practice what we shall call the Jesus-First Model. I’m sure you’ve heard it before, some bright-eyed girl wearing a little, silver cross informs you that 'Jesus comes first in my relationship.' Or your friend tells you, 'first God, and then my spouse. . . .' But the idea that God is frustrated that you’re loving your girl instead of Him is ridiculous."